Posts in Existential Kink
the gentle way to extract gold from our wounds

If you’ve already checked out the free first few chapters of my Existential Kink book … you might now be enjoying a glimpse of how it’s possible to re-arrange your whole existence by giving even the “don’t like” situations in your life some shameless, freaky celebration.

Today I want to keep encouraging you in your journey by addressing the second common stumbling block to super-successful Existential Kink practice.

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why you can let go of "Wrong & Bad" forever

The first of the stumbling blocks people encounter when they begin to practice EK is the temptation to self-blame, or what I like to call “the Wrong & Bad Program.”

The Wrong & Bad Program says that if at a deep unconscious level you’re responsible for everything in your experience (as EK philosophy suggests), and your experience is painful or difficult..,

… then that means it’s because you suck.

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