Today I want to address the third common stumbling block people encounter when they first start to work with Existential Kink practice.
(To know what I’m talking about, please go ahead and read the first few chapters of Existential Kink here.)
I call the third stumbling block “grabbing for the goodies.
Read MoreIf you’ve already checked out the free first few chapters of my Existential Kink book … you might now be enjoying a glimpse of how it’s possible to re-arrange your whole existence by giving even the “don’t like” situations in your life some shameless, freaky celebration.
Today I want to keep encouraging you in your journey by addressing the second common stumbling block to super-successful Existential Kink practice.
Read MoreThe first of the stumbling blocks people encounter when they begin to practice EK is the temptation to self-blame, or what I like to call “the Wrong & Bad Program.”
The Wrong & Bad Program says that if at a deep unconscious level you’re responsible for everything in your experience (as EK philosophy suggests), and your experience is painful or difficult..,
… then that means it’s because you suck.
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